Strengths-based leadership in HR: how knowing your own strengths can future-proof your career

Author Charlotte Matthew
February 20, 2026

Ahead of International Women’s Day, I recorded a podcast conversation with Renee Conklin as part of our View from the top HR executive series at Frazer Jones.

Renee is a career and executive coach who focuses specifically on supporting senior female HR leaders. In my role as an HR recruiter, working closely with leaders across human resources, I see first-hand how often confidence, self-awareness and clarity about strengths shape career decisions.

Our conversation focused on strengths-based leadership and why it has become such an important theme for HR leaders navigating change, pressure and increasingly complex work environments.

Why does strengths-based leadership matter so much for HR leaders?

I opened the discussion by asking Renee why strengths-based leadership feels particularly relevant right now.

Her answer reflected what she sees daily in her coaching work. Many HR leaders build long careers without pausing to assess whether their roles still align with their unique strengths. Often, reflection only happens when something shifts. A new micromanaging boss, a role that has grown without recognition, or a period of uncertainty.

At that point, HR leaders start questioning their career path and whether their current role supports the quality of life they want long term.

Renee explained that a strengths-based approach gives leaders a clearer lens for decision-making. Rather than simply reacting to change, they can step back and assess whether a role, organisation or leadership style truly allows them to perform at their full potential and sustain long‑term well‑being.

What do we actually mean by “strengths”?

I asked Renee to clarify what she means by strengths, because this is often misunderstood.

She described strengths as things we do well and that feel natural and energising. They are closely linked to natural talents and character strengths, rather than learned behaviours alone. This distinction sits firmly within the principles of positive psychology and underpins much of the work associated with Gallup and strengths-based leadership.

Renee shared an example from her own experience. Organisation is one of her strengths, and she uses it effectively in her professional life. However, applying that same strength extensively outside of work can feel draining. The skill does not change, but the context does.

For HR leaders, this insight is particularly relevant to how they manage their day-to-day workload, leadership style and overall sense of job satisfaction.

Why do HR leaders struggle to recognise their strengths?

I was keen to understand the patterns Renee sees most often among HR leaders, especially women in senior roles.

She highlighted three consistent challenges.

  • Second, there is a strong tendency to focus on what is not going well. HR roles require constant problem-solving, emotional judgement and decision-making. Because these skills are used every day, they can feel invisible rather than exceptional.
  • Third, HR leaders may underestimate the complexity of their work. Handling employee relations issues, supporting difficult conversations and preventing escalation all rely on deep expertise, yet these strengths are rarely labelled as such.

Without self-awareness, it becomes harder for HR leaders to advocate for themselves in performance management conversations or recognise the impact they have on employee engagement and workplace culture.

How do strengths influence the teams HR leaders build?

I then asked Renee how knowing your own strengths influences how you lead others.

Her response was practical and grounded. When HR leaders understand their strengths, they can build teams more intentionally. Instead of trying to cover every gap themselves, they can hire team members whose strengths complement their own.

In my experience, this is how great leaders operate. Strengths-based leadership is not about individual brilliance. It is about creating the conditions for organisational success through complementary skills.

The three practical ways HR leaders can apply a strengths-based approach

Towards the end of our conversation, I asked Renee what HR leaders can do to embed strengths into their leadership development and day-to-day practice.

She shared three clear solutions.

1. Know your strengths, using the same tools you use with leaders

Renee pointed out that HR teams regularly run leadership development initiatives for the business using tools such as Hogan and CliftonStrengths and StrengthsFinder, both of which were developed by Gallup.

However, many HR leaders have not completed a strengths assessment themselves for some time. Revisiting these tools can help leaders reconnect with their personal strengths and understand how their individual strengths show up in their current role.

This is a simple but powerful starting point for strengths-based development.

2. Find a strategic partner to balance your strengths

Renee’s second recommendation was to identify a strategic partner. She shared an example from her career where she partnered with someone who was stronger on numbers and metrics, while she focused on analysis and senior stakeholder communication. This balance improved team strengths, supported more effective team meetings and ultimately strengthened team performance.

No HR leader can be strong in every area. By recognising gaps and partnering with someone whose strengths complement their own, leaders can operate more effectively without unnecessary pressure.

This approach supports better decision-making, stronger performance management outcomes and more sustainable leadership.

3. Keep a record of your impact

The final recommendation was to keep a “brag file” or success file.

This is a simple record of positive feedback, outcomes and achievements. It can be invaluable during performance reviews, when setting goals, or on days when confidence dips.

From my perspective, this habit directly supports well-being and quality of life, but also career development, particularly in senior HR roles where expectations are high and successes are quickly forgotten.

Strengths-based leadership, culture and the future of HR

We also touched on the changing landscape of human resources, including the growing role of technology and AI. Renee referenced recent thinking from Josh Bersin on how automation is reshaping HR roles, and the uncertainty this is creating for many leaders.

Renee’s point was clear. HR leaders who understand people’s strengths, including employees’ strengths, are better placed to build a culture that supports engagement, performance and adaptability.

Strengths‑based leadership allows HR leaders to focus on what humans do best, even as the work environment evolves. It also reinforces a healthier workplace culture where strengths are recognised, developed and valued.

My closing reflection ahead of International Women’s Day

This conversation reinforced what I see consistently in my work. Strengths‑based leadership is not a soft concept. It is a practical, effective approach that helps HR leaders become more confident, more impactful and more sustainable in their careers.

Ahead of International Women’s Day, I was particularly glad we focused on the experiences of senior female HR leaders. Renee’s work is a powerful reminder that recognising your strengths is not self‑promotion. It is a necessary step towards becoming an effective leader and supporting long‑term organisational success. If you’d like to get it touch with Renee, you can find her on LinkedIn or listen to her Women in HR podcast.

This theme also runs through our upcoming International Women’s Day webinar, Leading beyond discomfort: how the mind and body can support connected leadership, where we will explore how leaders can move through pressure, build trust and lead with greater connection. If you would like to join us or watch the replay you can register here.

We will continue sharing insights here and on LinkedIn, where we explore leadership, careers and the evolving role of HR. If you would like to speak to us about HR recruitment, whether you are hiring or considering your next move, you can also get in touch using the form below.

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